How to Deal with Working with People Who You Sincerely Do Not Like

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How do you deal with the daily grind of working with people that you sincerely dislike on a daily basis.

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Move #1 – Focus on Developing a Strong “Very Small Circle of Friends” Who Are Bound Together by Values and Goals (Not geographic proximity)

Move #2 – For Everyone Outside of Your Circle, Focus On Goals and Not People if You Want to Be Happy
NOTABLE QUOTABLE – “If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.” – Albert Einstein (The Nobel Prize winning theoretical physicist who introduced the concept of developing an atomic weapon to President Roosevelt. This is the reason that all Americans are not speaking German or Japanese today.)

MYSTIC STATISTIC – The U.S. Chamber of Commerce estimates that 75% of employees steal from the workplace and that most do so repeatedly. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/employee-theft-are-you-blind-to-it/

#3 – Embrace the Concept That If You Are Righteous You Will Be Persecuted and You Will Not Get Your Reward Until You Get to Heaven

NOTABLE QUOTABLE – “Being a great leader means sometimes pissing people off.” – General Colin Powell (A retired four-star general in the United States Army and the 65th United States Secretary of State)

NOTABLE QUOTABLE – “There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.” – Aristotle (An ancient Greek philosopher and scientist)

#4 – Learn to Embrace the Hate and to Let it Fuel You
Age 33 – Jesus killed for trying to share God’s love and message with humanity.
Age 39 – Martin Luther King Jr. was killed for daring to argue that people should be judged based upon the content of their character and not the color of their skin.
Age 56 – President Abraham Lincoln killed for trying to end slavery.
Age 70 – Socrates put to death for questioning whether the gods were real. The trial for Socrates was held in 399 BC to determine whether he was guilty of two charges:
Impiety (lack of respect) against the pantheon of Athens .
Failing to acknowledge that the the Gods were real.
Age 77 – Galileo – Sentenced him to death by imprisonment for heresy. He argued that the Sun does not move and is in fact the center of the Universe and that Earth moves around it.

Conclusion – “To me work is show time.” – Clay Clark


Our business coach is responding to a question from a thriver that says how do you deal with working with people? How do you deal with working with people? How do you go to work everyday hating, every single person who hurts their Steve wish it were. You have hated every single person that works in your office after I got fired. He was like I was like this is exactly why you need to do a group interview and that you need to interview every week and that you needed to help people Shadow and you need to file that business coach system and in have a polarizing environment. And then you can pick people that come to work for you that you like, and then you won’t have to deal with going to work every day with people you hate, I can say with arthritis time, show core team. I pray. Would you like all the team members I’ve got a couple, people that I have some issues with and I’ve talked to them and hopefully they figure it out before they get fired, but other than that I like the basketball Jordy of our team, and so I want To answer this person’s questions, I want to give you moves. I want to give you movess specific moves that you can use and they’re really for moves and a conclusion that you can use if you found yourself in a position where you do hate every single person that you work with, because I have also found myself in That position when I owned DJ connection, I just hated everybody that work there focus on developing a strong, very small circle of friends who are bound together by values and gold, not Geographic proximity. You don’t become friends with somebody just because they live near you just because they sit near you at church just because they are but develop a strong. A very strong, very small circle of friends are bound together by the same values and goals steep. Why is it so important that you, if you’re a top-level entrepreneur, want to be that you surround yourself with top-level entrepreneurs, because people that are beneath you in their pursuit or people that don’t have the same vision in the same goals? In the same drive that you have, they will eventually win like the people will drag you down. They just went so you got to the people say it’s Lonely at the Top play because of it cuz. It is so when you get to that level. You’Ve done you’ve got to constantly be developing and growing yourself, and you can’t do that with with people that, in my opinion, with people that work for you that are trying to learn from you, you’re not going to learn from them. I would encourage you if you find yourself struggling right now with trying to get friendship or affirmation for the people. You work with, stop doing that and develop a a strong, very small circle of friends who share your values.

 

Moon over to everybody outside of your business coach circle, encourage you to focus on your goals and not people. If you want to be happy so get if you’re talking about people outside of your circle, I would encourage you to focus on your goals and not people. If you want to be happy, you see Albert Einstein, Albert Einstein, once Road in this is a powerful. I notable quote when he want said if you want to. If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal not to people or things that Albert Einstein, the Nobel prize-winning theoretical physicist, who introduced the concept of developing an atomic weapon to President Roosevelt. This is the reason that all Americans are really not speaking. German or Japanese today I mean it is so important that you understand this if you’re, if you’re talking about people at work, focus on goals and not people, if you want to be happy because of you focus on making every single person happy Steve, you can’t even Choose overhead music that makes everybody happy holiday party. That makes everybody happy. You can’t do anything that makes every single person happy. Please preach to me the good news, you don’t! You will be disappointed with people and it anybody. That’S live for a couple years and an adult life knows that you probably disappointed some people and people are disappointing. Humans are disappointing and that’s why I sign says: to live a happy life, tie it to a goal not to people or things, because if you typed people to things are constantly going to be disappointed and it’s a lot of the time I think play. The reason is because they don’t have the same goals and wants that you have, because I know you’re trying to drive them to do whatever they don’t want to do that. You want to become a multi-millionaire and they are confident making her happy making 45000 Year. Yes, so let him and tie yours to a goal not to a person because of the lies. You will lose faith in humanity. You will quickly number 3 embraced the concept that, if you are righteous, you will be persecuted and you will not get your reward until you get to heaven. As an example, I mean Colin Powell, a very tired Four Star General in the United States Army and the 65th United States Secretary of State. He wants wrote, being a great leader, mean sometimes pissing people off. I mean you’re going to piss people off..

 

He says: there’s only one way to avoid criticism. It’S do nothing say nothing and be nothing. So if you are somebody who’s doing a very good job at work, you can understand you have to break the concept if you are doing a really good job at work. You might get promoted we’re not going to be liked, I mean for sure, because you’re holding people accountable and people hate, I mean Steve the people that need accountability the most almost by and large, hate accountability. Why is that? Because you know everybody needs it in. Nobody wants it, I mean I find very few people that just want to be held accountable, Fox away, but at the same time I think that the right employee wants a agur division and an expectation and some accountability, because they realize that you know the right person. They realize they do need a little some accountability in order to be their best. So if you’re listening right now and you are found yourself dreading going to work in your manager or a leader, I encourage you just to recap embrace the concept that if you are righteous, you will be persecuted and you will not get your reward until you get To heaven now, if you said geez, that seems pretty harsh, if you Google, search Matthew 5:10 and go and I’ll, give you a second to pull it up. Matthew 5:10 or you can look on Steve, currington’s left bicep, where you at. Did you actually get the Bible verse put it on your arm? Is that is that right, that’s right! There Matthew 5:10! It’S one of my faves one piece faves and became one of my face, so I don’t want to be reminded of it. So I haven’t 510 says this is: has blessed, are those who are persecuted because of their righteousness? Busy blessed are those who are persecuted for being right? You can read it another way. Blessed are those who are persecuted being right and who are charged with holding people accountable accountable. You can read it a different way. Blessed are those who are persecuted because you pissed people off for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven. Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, because theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven God’s going to reward you be able to understand the planet. Earth people do not like it, though they do not like it. I don’t know so it is so important to understand that and move number for this is my favorite move, and I encourage you to take this move to Heart, Lord, embrace the hate and to let it to you just like the emperor he used to say to You know Darth Vader and Luke Skywalker kind of encouraging messages.

 

He would take. Let the hate flow through you, like that., That was Emperor of a bad guy, had a good point. Let the hate flow through. You strike him down. Join me in a week. The Galaxy near like we’ll come down you look kind of gross. This is the thing about letting the hate embracing the hate 833 Jesus Christ was killed for trying to share God’s love and message with him, and what did he do to share God’s love? 839. Martin Luther King jr. was killed for daring to argue that people should be judged based upon the content of their character and not the color of their skin age 56. Abraham Lincoln, was killed for what trying to end slavery. 870 Socrates was put to death for questioning God. If the gods were real, it turns out, and so he was charged with talking bad against the multiple gods telling to acknowledge the gods and 877. Galileo was sentenced to death by imprisonment for heresy because he he argued the crazy guy. He argued the heretic but horrible person. He argued that the song, when does not move in the Earth, moves around the Sun, so I can we have to kill them. So if you’re actually correct understand that people are going to attack you, so I can clusion to me, work is business coach Showtime. It is so important if you are asking yourself. How do I come to work and try to be fun or had to be exciting? How to be motivated and environment? Why isn’t chili do not like the people. I work with just understand that work is Showtime as a doctor’s note or told me years ago, and I tell you again: work is Showtime. I was thinking of Showtime if you want to come out to the best in person business workshop on the history in the history of the planet in the history of the planet Earth all you got to do is go to thrive. Time show and leave a review on iTunes, just Google search Thrive. Time show and the word iTunes give us a review And subscribe, and you shall receive two free tickets, valued at a piece to our next in person Workshop. You never want to miss it. Throbs. Michelle workshop and now the tickets are free, just by leaving a review and subscribing on I-25 and a business coach and Steve Currington he’s the mortgage man with any further news to what

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